So I'm driving in my car on my way to the place I consider Paradise ... the thing that sends you a check for doing your dues ... Yeah a job ... well I consider being like John Madden ... I have to look over my shoulder to see if a cop car is behind ... Its like I'm taking money ! Anyway ! So I'm in my car watching the bright lights coming from all the little food establishments ... I'm always thinking about food ! Anyway ! I pull into a McDonalds and I hear all this profanity and screaming ... I'm thinking well someone isn't getting a happy meal today !
I have to say drama kind of fazed me ... people yelling at the top of their lungs and getting red as they used explicit language. We all joke around and say things but truthfully do you really mean it? I mean yeah there are alot of assholes out there that talk shit and you would love to take a bowl of chilli and dump it all over their pencil-neck geek looking head ( Freddy Blassey ) as you roar in delight and walk off to a standing ovation ! But truthfully all the drama I been associated with is like an episode of Survior or Jersey Shore ... Damn that guy who punched Snookie in her face ... All the fans will let you have their shots for free ... right in the kisser. Where was I ? Oh yeah so its really like an episode of Survivor ... random stuff comes up then the chatter starts ... And then its well ok I said this and you said this ... and then the next week rolls around and you like well what's up how have you been. Its like being in a basketball game... little vibes come up , and your in the heat of the moment and you start chattering away. Then I smile and laugh it off ... Hell I did that for a long time !
See drama costs money and then ruins you , so shake it off . Like if you decide to punch somebody ... you have to pay all this money and it goes to court ... what's the sense in that! Play some basketball and run your mouth ... then let all the tension turn into a craving for a koolaid. GO for a walk and curse ... roll up the window and drive down a vacant road as you yell at the top of your lungs ... Listen to rap music with a ton of curse roads ... make a never ending playlist. Then put a smile on your face and wave to this person ... see its probably just something you said and it really is a joke , but your so tensed up your believing you want a feud . I'm reading Russell Simmons' Do You ... where he talks about drama and he says turn drama into something positive ... Like when your pissed off at someone go to grocery store and buy up things ... make it a night out . Chances are when you hop back in your car your going to see what time it is and want to go home and do other things. Then you wake up and feel rejuvinated and the drama becomes positive energy to do something else.
Simmons also said the best cure for drama is comedy and poetry . If you get into a fight with someone try to release yourself in poetry ... write a poem of why this situation is bugging you and keep it with you every time you feel yourself wanting to go into an uproar or want release your tension in a negative way. Now as for the comedy part people say things and you don't like them but try to laugh it off or walk away ... then echo the words that are pissing you off in your head . Now imagine yourself as a comic ... there has to be something about them that makes you crack up ... even if your pissed off ! You can actually laugh off things because noone is perfect and something about everybody makes you go damn! Thats not drama but its a way to stop drama from going too far. As long as you laugh things off Drama is nothing. Noone is saying that there isn't drama ... and you have to take shit nor should you , but explore the avenues a little bit because maybe noone is to blame ... it might have just come off wrong , but once you see its not anything to worry about then drama becomes positive and its in good fun.
Like all these jokes and glares ... and goofy looks about my hair and the way I talk ... and act . It doesn't really bother me because noone is perfect or normal ... what the hell is normal ? Everybody has their oppinion of everybody , but its cool ... there is no right or wrong. Now people hurt people with words , and this is very wrong. However ... some people joke around and it comes off as wrong , but take a moment and explore the avenue of laughing it off ... the more you laugh something off the chances are the ball breaker and the audience will look at you ... the target and go ... damn your not phazed ... or no comeback ... and they'll join in on your behalf and the whole thing becomes fun ... and after analyzing this for years its true. 99.9% of the things I say in drama-related instances are joking and if I calm off the tension there is nothing there ... this is why mostly all the people I have drama with I talk to the next time I see them ... I was always told life is too short ... but truthfully my life is going to be long because drama doesn't phase me because if I'm smiling afterwards and shaking it off as I always do ... its just a purpose to reflect and change ... if you say things then you said them , but leave it alone and live another day because one who just let things go will be more respected and looked upon as a stronger person than one who wants to let tension explode and throw blows . Not saying you shouldn't express yourself ... one could only take so much. Its like being on a highway and the guy or girl is going slow as hell ... you are patient for so long until you realize the person is on their cell phone and then you go ... well you know the rest ! Its like playing football and you get hit late your probably going to shake it off and let it slide , but then you get hit again and you either curse out loud or deck the guy ... let it slide then take another hit ... chances are nobody will let it slide because pushing gets negative attention from everyone around you.
After just hearing a variety of hurtful being said , I just said its pointless to get into an uproar like that. First of all don't curse at women guys if your upset. We know where it leads and truthfully 9 times out of 10 some people end up regretting it. Just backoff and let the words come out . I don't know how the situation at the McDonalds turned out ... the parking lot where the couple stood was dark ... there were no cop cars , so I'm guessing everything turned out ok. Everyone says things they don't mean ... They also do things they don't mean ... its being human. So instead of making these flaws of humanity something you will regret... take time to reflect on what could happen ... turn the negative notion into positive energy . As much as you want to curse out someone or tell them off sometimes its better to do something for you and feel good ... then you'll forget your frustration and know what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.
One who swallows their pride will live a life of endless possibility ... the one who dwells and surrenders to animosity and paranoia will fade away to a world of restriction and despair.
Take time and reflect on who you are and want to be ... As John Legend once expressed we should be the change we want to see ... If your ready we can shake the world ... We don't have to wait for destiny . Don't let things in your life change you ... Change you to live life .
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